August 27, 2017
I hardly use Twitter anymore, and I’ve noticed that I’m starting to get the same way with Facebook. I know why I don’t use Twitter anymore, and that’s because there’s too much garbage in my Twitter feed (RTs and what not that the people I follow care about, but I don’t). In the past, I even specifically stopped following people because they post too much. Later, Twitter went to an algorithmic feed to help create a feed of things
I Twitter thinks I care about, but you know, I don’t really care about that so I stopped using it.
To me, the Facebook News Feed is following the same path. When the News Feed came out, there was a lot of content posted from the people I follow. That was interesting! Sure, sometimes the feed was sparse, because people weren’t posting anything about their lives, but I was OK with that.
Now, the News Feed surfaces all sorts of random stuff. I’m not talking just about ads – I mean it’s surfacing things that my friends may have liked (about random people who I have never heard of before). That is not interesting and it is just noise. I also dislike the algorithmic feed as it is not by recency and I have a FOMO of things that my friends have posted. So I’m back to using a polluted “most recent” list.
But you know, I don’t actually get a lot of value out of that News Feed feed anymore. I still have to use it because there’s no alternative, but it’s actually pretty crappy!
August 14, 2017
I’ve been thinking recently that you can measure your life in groups of 6, and that your multiple-of-6 birthdays are significant. I don’t have a good term for them but the ages 6, 12, 18, 24, 30, 36 …? are milestones in the sense that you have “matured” from your previous years.
At age 6, you’ve learned all the basics about being a human. You know, walking, eating, talking. At age 12, you’ve mastered being a kid and going to school. At age 18, you’ve mastered being a teenager which is actually quite a feat. When you’re 24, you should have mastered how to live and take on the world on your own (rather than being sheltered by your parents). At 30, you should be well on your way at making a living, married, and contributing to society. Finally at 36, you should be a capable parent and used to taking care of kids.
Obviously, these metrics are more reflective of me than general society but it is almost uncanny how multiples of 6 years line up with these tiers. At age 42, I can take a look to see what the next 6 years will help me master.
August 1, 2017
We started off summer with a quick vacation down to Boston. We had been debating where to go for the Canada Day/July 4th long weekend for a long time now. I did want to goto Ottawa at some point this year, but it would probably have been too crazy with the 150th birthday and 3 kids. So we decided to goto Boston for a few days. This ended up being Katana’s first bus, subway, boat, airplane and train ride of her life – much like how Apollo went through the same thing when he was about 6 months old.
We did the usual summer stuff in July. No programs so Saturday and Sunday mornings were free. We did a couple of trips to Wonderland and started going to farms at the end of the month. I flew down to NYC for a couple of days closer to the end of the month as well. After weird weather in previous months, the weather has been like you would expect in summer.
Katana is more than 4 months old now so she started eating solids. The first week was a mess, but once she got the hang of swallowing, it’s a breeze to feed her (10-15 mins max). She can also roll over both ways and has a lot of fun with toys. But I think her favorite activity is still to play with her brothers!